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I'm still heartbroken

They say it takes months to get over someone.
Somehow I wish I hadn't discovered c and his girlfriend or unearthed the can of worms that had existed there before I arrived.
I'm just crying because of how foolish I must have looked and thankful to God that I have been removed from such a potentially harmful situation.
Someone already loves you to the moon and back, why did you need me ?
You broke up with her but she had personal effects all over your house.
I'm not saying I'm anything special here.
Afterall, I had my own kind of situation with F and we have arranged ourselves.
I didn't deceive anyone with him.
I just can't get over the discoveries I've made this morning.
As far back as when he made the b facebook page, she opened a page for herself.
No prior facebook info before then.
All the months before we broke up, consistently updating whatever was on b page.
I don't know how to feel but I'm just saying to myself incomprehensible words.
Things I can't really understand.
Muttering under my voice
Mumbling in my heart.
I don't know what It is but I know what it feels like and it hurts.
xoxo

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