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What to do with the sister of your exboyfriend ?

So the ex directed me to his sister for some business and we got chatting.
It felt awkward really because I'm saying to myself
'No babes, I don't want to be friends with you even you are so sweet because I don't ever want to see your brother again'
I don't even want to be in a situation that will make me see him.
I was to do some payment thing with her but when I passed by their office and saw his car, I just skipped on ahead.
I don't think I want to see him ever.
Not because I hate him so much but because I don't like being embarrassed.
He rejected my calls 2x on the occasion when I was calling about this same business issue.
They run a travel agency.
I kind of have this tendency to stick to businesses/people I know although I don't know if a past relationship affects work ethic.
Reason later why I prefer to deal with the sister at his suggestion.
I don't even want to believe I dated him.
It's surreal and it's heading into the archives of never existed.
You know when someone has seen all of you and there's nothing left to keep?
I go over It in my head wondering where the value or prestige is left ..
Or what's left of it.
If any.

I mean, I'm not even heartbroken per say
But I just can't get over the personality I supposedly dated.
So many questions unanswered which I don't even want answers to anymore.

I was in love with someone for 4years and said goodbye last year in october
It was heart wrenching.
Even if sometimes I still doubt if he really loved me, I know that somewhere in his heart lay a lot of sincerity.
His actions showed far more than words that he truly cared about me.

I'll continue this story someother time.
I just don't know which line to tow with the sister to this guy.
I mean she sounds nice and all and is someone I would naturally want to be friends with.
He never introduced me to her, I never met any of his friends.
I guess that was a clue right ?
I didn't take it.

xoxo

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