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Mama's boy

Mama's boy said he'd die if he didn marry me.i'm still unmarried but i haven't heard from him in so long i hope his prophecy didnt come true.he was my longest normal relationship.meaning,he spent a lot of time convincing and chasing me to be with him.maybe he's the one who knows?anyway,i always had a thing of a grudge with dating someone who was on my level.meaning,men had to be years ahead by at least four to five and have the maturity of ten years ahead of that age.do i ask for too much?no.i don't think so.anyway,after some months of begging pleading and gifts,i decided to give his love a chance.attention breeds affection so imagine why u should immidiately discourage anyone whom u don't remotely stand a chance with from excessive loving gestures.spontaneous romantic outings,all the works.sooner than i knew mama's boy was around all times of the clock,became somewhat a part of my life,the rest,history.there had however been this recurrent decimal issue about being at appointed places on time,running between mama's errands and me.all from the start but it just seemed like he was nice to mum.well,loving son turned out to be someone who could.nt do without mummy.she had to oversee all his life decisions,say his no's and his yes and how he loved her running his life.i just ignored it but you need to know that when the chips were down,it took an invisible toll on the state of things.it didn't end because he was an exclusively breastfed adult,but because the things he left out of his life when pulling and trailing mummy's hem caused him to develop a self lowself esteem.plus mummy's boys always always listen and heed every word of advise without thinking twice regardless of the source.so long it comes from someone who says it with mummy's tone and self assurance.oh dear,the things that make us wise.

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